How To Introduce Sex Toys In The Bedroom

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Now that Fifty Shades of Grey is so popular, all of the media is talking about sex and sex toys. Are you curious about trying them but are too embarrassed? Are you unsure whether they are right for you and your relationship?

The following are some common misconceptions about adult toys:

Most people don’t use sex toys

While adult toys are commonly used for masturbation, many couples enjoy using toys together, whether they are male or female or heterosexual or homosexual. Usually these couples are comfortable trying new things together, are open-minded, and trusting.

Using sex toys can be physically dangerous.

Sex toys are just for masturbation.

If you start using a sex toy, your partner will feel inadequate.

Many respectable people use adult toys, including people most would consider perfectly normal. Using an adult toy doesn’t make you “odd” or doesn’t say anything negative about your relationship.

Are you nervous that if you bring an adult toy into the bedroom, it will hurt your partner’s feelings? An adult toy can give you an orgasm, but it can’t tell you how much they love you or rub your back.

NO WAY!

Adult toys can have very positive effects on your sexual health.

You won’t have an orgasm with your partner if you use sex toys too much.

Many doctors and therapists recommend adult toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm; if you suffer from painful sex, vibrators can stimulate blood flow; all women can benefit from kegel exercisers or kegel balls to tone the pelvic floor muscles; prostate massagers reduce the risk of prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. Orgasms help you live longer, block pain and, some say, look younger. Who wouldn’t want that?

If your partner is afraid you’ll replace him or her with your favorite toy, promise him or her that you’ll always keep things different in the bedroom: try different positions, new toys, light bondage and fantasy play.

You are so lucky to have a healthy relationship. Who wouldn’t want to make their relationship even stronger and closer by sharing a new experience? If your lover is insistent about not wanting to use an adult toy to spice up your sex life, assure him or her that you don’t need an adult toy either, you ‘d just like to try one.

There’s no reason why you should need a sex toy if your relationship is healthy.

You or your partner is afraid of feeling pleasure

Luxury sex toys are just the opposite.

Because they look scary and gross, buying sex toys can be really embarrassing especially.

Most adult toys make you feel uncomfortable because they are cheesey or usually phallic or are so loud that you think your children or neighbor might hear what you are up to. Luxury sex toys are just the opposite. You might not even realize that they are high quality adult toys because they look like art.

Now that Fifty Shades of Grey is so popular, all of the media is talking about sex and sex toys. Using an adult toy doesn’t make you “odd” or doesn’t say anything negative about your relationship. Many doctors and therapists recommend adult toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm; if you suffer from painful sex, vibrators can stimulate blood flow; all women can benefit from kegel exercisers or kegel balls to tone the pelvic floor muscles; prostate massagers reduce the risk of prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. If your lover is insistent about not wanting to use an adult toy to spice up your sex life, assure him or her that you don’t need an adult toy either, you ‘d just like to try one.

Pleasure is a birthright. Orgasms make you healthier and happier.

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